Wait, you don’t view this the way that I do?
Sometimes we think things must be done a certain way. When in reality, it’s just how we like to do it. Which doesn’t mean we need to impose that on everyone else. It could just be our own personal quirk.
I like the dishwasher loaded a certain way. I’m not right, it is a quirky preference.
Big trash shouldn’t go in the small bathroom trash can. It should go in the big one downstairs so that we do not have to change out the bathroom one very often. Quirk!
Hard to recognize, but helpful to keep the peace.