A behavior or personality trait that is an asset in one arena, may hinder you in others.
It probably wont work super well to treat the athletes you coach in D1 swimming the same as you treat your partner and elementary-aged children at home.
This is of course obvious in the extreme, but do we always catch it on a more minor scale? If a relationship is strained, or if one area of your life lags behind another, this is one area to examine.