When should you be unique, quirky, self vs. tweak your personality to fit a different mold?

Sometimes it is important not to offend certain people. Yet, if you try to mold your personality to offend no one, you may become an unattractive, boring person – even to yourself.

I suspect that most of us fall too far towards the side of trying to please everyone, or offend no one. What happens if you show a little more of yourself? I wonder how many people will love what they see? The more people I talk to about this, the more I realize that the most put-together, amazing people, still struggle with the fear of embarrassment. We all have it, and yet, other people are thinking more about themselves than you.