It is easy to want people to trust us, and to not get involved in our personal business.
But sometimes what we think is personal business actually effects others. And while we may not like it, the right thing to do may be to share and allow others to question us with as much grace as we can muster.
Building trust is hard. Some people offer it freely while others will make you work for it. Only we can decide whether the work is worth it though sometimes it surely is.