Consciously or unconsciously we bring opportunities to our lives, or we shut them down.
Being aware of our unconscious decisionmaking is a process that happens over time, but it is a skill that can be strengthened.
It also helps to have conscious goals clearly defined. What is your vision for 20 years from now, 10 years, 5 years, 1 year, 1 month, this week, tomorrow, the next hour, etc. How you track them and envision your life can help to.
What have you been inviting lately, and are you happy with the results?