We make decisions based on the information we have at the time. If we assume that everyone is making the best decision that they can with the information they have, I believe it enriches our own lives and probably the lives of those around us. I was reminded of this recently. When we were first [...]
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Money Talk: How Much Will You Share With Your Kids (and When)?
I am sharing this post from my law practice site. I didn't write all of it...New Law Business Model, a program I am a part of to support my practice, drafts posts that I use and edit to my liking. But I think this is an important message and something I have been thinking about [...]
What do you wear when day upon day is spent inside your home?
As many of us now conduct our lives inside our own homes, it is an interesting time to consider what "looking nice" means to us. I have heard of people spending their days in sweatpants or even pajamas. There is actually a story floating around, whether true or not, about attorneys calling into video conference [...]
Talking to others to gain clarity.
It may be a good time to reach out to counselors, coaches, or an acquaintance, to create a formal relationship to help you get clear on what your goals are. While I shared recently some ideas about deepening connections with our close family and friends, sometimes there is immense value in getting clarity by talking [...]
Introvert.
Besides the horribleness going on around, I kinda live the stay at home order. I love interacting with others but struggle to get the inertia to actually go out. Now I can just call in and it's kind of perfect. My heart goes out to those who are in hell not being able to go [...]
To numb or to grow?
How can we make the most of the time we have right now? Things are different. I don't know what your different looks like now, but I know it is different. And I don't know what you are facing in your own life. Your concerns may be health, finances, relationships, or all of the above. [...]
Cultivating conversations to deepen relationships during the COVID-19 pandemic.
You’re connecting with people you haven’t talked to in years. Or maybe you’re talking more often with your spouse, friends, and family than you have in a long time. It’s great to connect and spend time with each other (even if virtually), but you may find that conversations remain surface-level rather than getting deeper. Or [...]
Wearing a face mask.
I was a little late to don a face mask in my community. Most people beat me to it. My initial excuse: I do not sew and I don't have another connection to get one. Out of shame, I got to work and found a way to make one out of a t-shirt. It took [...]
Costco April 2020: Shop Report.
The day before, I busied myself making sure that my list was complete. Coffee, check. Eggs, check. Dog food, check. And much, much more. I had been preparing for this event all week. On shop morning, I set my alarm for my usual time: 4:30am. Normally on shop day, I would get up right away, [...]
Sometimes I am a know-it-all and I don’t like it.
I was recently engaged in a conversation and the person I was speaking to brought up something that I had heard about but didn't know much about. I acted as though I knew more than I did, which, given the circumstances became very obvious rather quickly. As I reflect I question why my immediate response [...]